Manhattan Play Therapy
Building self-esteem in kids. Self-esteem counseling for teens.

Confidence begins with feeling safe, seen, and supported.

Children and teens who struggle with self-esteem often carry quiet doubts about their worth, abilities, or place in the world. I work with young people to help them understand those inner voices and begin forming a healthier, more compassionate view of themselves. In session, I use creative and movement-based approaches such as play, art, storytelling, and talk therapy to help kids process emotions and recognize their strengths. These moments of reflection and connection support emotional growth and confidence.

 

I also work closely with caregivers to support growth at home. Low self-esteem can show up in many ways, such as withdrawal, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or outbursts. Therapy offers a space to understand these behaviors and respond with care. Whether a child is navigating school challenges, friendship struggles, or changes in the family, we can work together to help them feel more secure, supported, and grounded in who they are.

 

Let's talk about how we can support your child’s growth and confidence.

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When should I consider therapy for my child's self-esteem?

It’s normal for children to have moments of self-doubt, especially during periods of growth or change. Therapy may be helpful if your child consistently puts themselves down, avoids new experiences, struggles with friendships, becomes overly self-critical, or seems anxious about making mistakes. Early support can help children develop confidence, emotional resilience, and a healthier sense of self before these patterns become more deeply rooted.

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if my child may be struggling with low self-esteem?

Children with low self-esteem may avoid challenges, be overly self-critical, seek constant reassurance, withdraw from others, or become frustrated when they make mistakes. Therapy can help uncover the emotions beneath these behaviors and support healthier self-confidence.

Therapy helps children better understand their emotions, recognize their strengths, and develop more compassionate ways of thinking about themselves. Through play, art, storytelling, movement, and conversation, children build confidence in a supportive and nonjudgmental environment.

Yes. Perfectionism and people-pleasing can sometimes be signs that a child is struggling with self-worth or fears making mistakes. Therapy helps children develop self-confidence that isn’t based solely on achievement or the approval of others.

Yes. Parents play an important role in helping children build confidence outside of therapy. Sessions may include parent guidance and practical strategies that support your child’s emotional growth at home.

Yes. Low self-esteem often affects friendships, school participation, and willingness to try new things. Therapy helps children develop emotional resilience, improve communication, and feel more confident navigating everyday challenges.

Building self-esteem takes time, especially when self-doubt has developed over months or years. Some children notice positive changes within a relatively short period, while others benefit from longer-term support as they continue to build confidence and emotional resilience. Therapy is always tailored to your child’s unique needs.

Yes. Your child’s privacy is respected throughout the therapeutic process. We’ll also discuss how caregivers are involved and what information is shared to best support your child’s emotional growth and well-being.